Your Body Is Not Broken: Somatic Healing in Late Stage Capitalism

Capitalism whispers: “Your worth = your productivity.” Patriarchy whispers: “Dominate. Extract. Obey.” And your body? Your body whispers something else entirely— but it’s harder to hear in a world that profits from your disconnection.     How Capitalism Shapes Us Before We’re Even Born   Capitalism and socio-economic pressures shape us before we even take our first breath. For tens of thousands of years, humans lived in small, connected tribes—where the whole village raised the children. Today, most parents are left isolated, drowning in financial stress, forced to succeed in the rat race just to survive. And here’s the truth: capitalism doesn’t just shape culture “out there.” It literally wires into our nervous systems “in here.” A caretaker’s ability to regulate their own nervous system teaches a baby’s system how to regulate. But when parents are overworked, under-supported, and chronically stressed about money, survival, and productivity—this regulation becomes nearly impossible. The baby feels this. The baby absorbs this. And it shapes brain development, the immune system, emotional regulation, and even how that child will one day relate to others and to themselves.     Trauma Isn’t Always “One Big Event”   We often think of trauma as abuse or catastrophic events, but it can also be the invisible, repeated stresses of disconnection—the moments of neglect, emotional absence, or relational rupture that layer over time. This is complex trauma. It teaches the nervous system:   The world is unsafe. My needs are too much. I must perform or please to belong. I am inherently bad, wrong, or broken. This is how systems like capitalism, patriarchy, consumerism, and colonialism live inside us. They thrive when we are sick, exhausted, disconnected, and ashamed—because then we are easier to control.     The Weight of the Shadow   Every expectation. Every “should.” Every silenced impulse. Every swallowed truth. Every unshed tear. They don’t just vanish. They live in the body— in fascia, in gut, in posture, in jaw. They live in the parts of us carrying internalized beliefs and survival strategies. This is why the grind feels endless. This is why shame feels like home. This is why collapse feels like rest. Not because you are broken— but because your body is adapting to survive a culture that constantly overrides its wisdom.     The Wound of Disconnection   Most of the crises we face today—burnout, climate collapse, polarization, violence—stem from one root wound: disconnection.   From our bodies. From each other. From the Earth. And yet: you are already whole. You belong simply because you exist. We are not separate. We are interwoven—like the mycelium networks in the forest, built on mutual care, reciprocity, and support. People aren’t the problem. The systems are. And not every body has the same privilege or access to resources. Which is why creating safe-enough spaces—for rest, play, expression, truth—is not a luxury, it’s a birthright.     How the System Lives in Your Soma   Capitalism isn’t just an external system. It literally shapes us from the inside out:   Muscles contract. Jaws clench. Stress loops repeat. Inflammation builds. Survival becomes the baseline. Collapse feels like rest. Pleasure feels unsafe. Connection feels dangerous. Toxic shame feels familiar. We disconnect from the body’s signals, the mind speeds up to “fix” it, and we end up in the disembodiment loop. This is the somatic shadow—the invisible baggage of systems we didn’t choose but still carry in our tissues.     The Polycrisis in the Body   The planetary polycrisis—climate collapse, war, mass burnout, rising polarization— isn’t separate from our personal crises. They live in the same nervous system. Humans are apex predators who forgot they are also mammals—wired for connection, community, and reciprocity. When our needs for safety, belonging, and dignity are unmet, survival mode takes over: me vs. you, us vs. them, dominate or be dominated. This is why we are sick. This is why the Earth is sick. Because the same extractive logic lives in our bodies.     Somatic Healing: Embodied Liberation   Here’s the thing: your body isn’t broken. It’s adapting. Protecting. Communicating. Somatic healing is not about fixing yourself or buying another “self-improvement” solution the system profits from. It’s about remembering. It’s about listening. It’s about slowly meeting the parts of you that learned to collapse, to hustle, to numb, to hide— and welcoming them back home with compassion. This is embodied liberation. This is shadow integration. This is how we stop blaming ourselves for what systems have written into our bodies—and reclaim self-trust, choice, agency, power. When we resource enough safety, the body knows how to complete the stress cycle. It shakes. It cries. It softens. It finds rhythm again. It remembers connection. And in remembering— we reclaim what capitalism wants us to forget: our humanity. Our aliveness. Our interdependence.     Somatic Shadow Work Prompts   Pause here. Notice which line landed in your body. Drop a word, image, or sensation in your journal. Here are some prompts to deepen the practice:   If capitalism or patriarchy had a shape or texture inside me, what would it be? Where does my body feel pulled to contract, hustle, or hide? If my nervous system could speak right now, what would it say? What small act of softness—or rebellion—does my body long for? What conditions would help my body feel safe enough to connect to its own wisdom? What parts of me need more space, rest, play, movement, connection, or pleasure? Imagine your embodied transformation rippling out into the collective—what shifts?     Coming Back Into Wholeness   Your body is not a machine to optimize. It is a piece of Earth. It remembers rhythms, cycles, seasons. When we feel safe enough in our own skin, we access:   Gut instincts + primal impulses. Compassion + inherent worth. The deep interconnection of all life. Somatic healing isn’t just individual—it’s collective. It’s shining light on the shadow of systems. It’s remembering what our ancestors knew: healing is communal, ecological, embodied. This is what it…
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Your Body Remembers What Your Mind Can’t: Implicit Memories and Somatic Healing

When it comes to stress and trauma, your body is like that friend who remembers every awkward detail about the time you tripped in high school—except it doesn’t just remember the moments; it stores them. Whether it’s a knot in your stomach when someone raises their voice or a sudden freeze when you’re overwhelmed, your body holds onto experiences, even when your brain decides to hit the “forget” button. Your brain is like that overprotective friend who means well but ends up creating chaos. It’s always either reliving the past—“Remember that embarrassing thing you said in 2008? Let’s cringe about it for hours!”—or trying to predict the future—“What if everything goes wrong? Let’s panic just in case!” This isn’t malicious. Your brain is just doing its job: protecting you. It’s scanning for threats, thanks to its trusty negativity bias, which is like having a personal alarm system set to “paranoia.” It remembers all the bad stuff to keep you safe and adapts to the environment around you. But here’s the catch: instead of hanging out in the real world, your brain often keeps you stuck in a virtual reality of worst-case scenarios and past disasters. Meanwhile, your body is over here like, “Hey, I’m in the present moment! Wanna join me?” When the brain and body stop communicating, though, it’s bad news. Research shows that this disconnection can lead to chronic stress, emotional dysregulation, and even physical health issues like inflammation and heart disease (Van der Kolk, 2014; Chrousos, 2009). The brain might be busy replaying past failures or imagining future catastrophes, but without feedback from the body, it can’t accurately gauge what’s happening right now. That’s like trying to navigate with a broken GPS—it’s just guesswork. The thing is, your body is your true bestie(even though in all reality our brain is part of our body too lol). It’s always working to help you survive, adapt, and even thrive. But if your mind is running the show solo, you end up disconnected from your body’s wisdom, stuck in a loop of overthinking, and missing what’s actually happening right now. To sum it up: Your brain’s a bit of a drama queen, but your body? Total grounding MVP. And when they’re on speaking terms, magic happens—you heal, grow, and actually enjoy the ride. Now to the topic of trauma, which thanks to new science isnt viewed as just the experience but what happens inside of us as a result. From the perspective of psychobiology trauma is an interrupted stress response and all the creative ways we adapt to protect ourselves as a result of the wound that happened.  So it’s not like they used to think that trauma is just a psychological wound, it doesn’t just live in our memories, sometimes we actually have no memory or words for what happened; it’s imprinted in our posture, movements, physiological responses,  and the way we perceive ourselves and navigate the world. Chronic stress or early attachment wounds—like inconsistent care, abuse or chronic emotional misattunemets—shape how we hold ourselves. Leaning forward might signal a drive to please or seek connection, collapsing inward could reflect defeat or helplessness, while moving against others, with a rigid, defensive posture, may guard against harm.  These patterns are not flaws—they’re adaptations your body developed to keep you safe in the moment – only what was helpful back then often becomes the root of our issues as adults. So the process of soamtic healing is finding ways to let the body, the nervous system, know that right now we are safe enough. When the body does not feel safe aka survival mode, we cannot fully take in new information, experience, connect socially, or engage in life in adaptive ways , only reacting in protective ways – survival comes first. The Body as a Keeper of Memory This is why early life adversity leaves such a profound mark. Our baby nervous system is constantly scanning the enviroment, learning, and adapting all In the name of survival.  The memories might not live in your conscious mind, but they exist in your body as implicit memories (and subconscious)—the unspoken sensations, automatic reactions, imagery, and emotions that pop up seemingly out of nowhere. As Dr. Pat Ogden says: “The body remembers what the mind forgets.” A traumatic event—especially in early childhood—signals your brain’s alarm system (the amygdala) floods your body with stress hormones, while the rational thinking brain (prefrontal cortex) is not yet fully developed to help you process what’s happening. In infancy and early childhood, the hippocampus is still maturing, which means it cannot effectively organize experiences into cohesive narratives. Instead, these experiences are stored as fragmented bits—sensations, images, or physical reactions—without clear context or a sense of time. As the brain develops later in life, traumatic experiences may still overwhelm the hippocampus, especially if the nervous system is already dysregulated from earlier stress or attachment disruptions. This can result in a similar fragmented storage of memories, with emotions and body sensations remaining disconnected from the conscious, logical understanding of events. It’s also crucial to acknowledge how our identity, privilege, and intersections with systemic oppression influence the ways trauma impacts us. Factors like race, gender, class, disability, and sexual orientation shape both the types of traumatic experiences we might face and the resources available to us for healing.As humans we all have the same needs of physical resources like food, water, and shelter, but we also all need to feel safety, belonging, and dignity and unfortunately these resources are not distributed equally. For individuals from marginalized communities, trauma is often not a singular event but an ongoing experience rooted in systemic inequalities, discrimination, and generational oppression. The chronic nature of this trauma can keep the nervous system in a persistent state of survival, further complicating the healing process. Recognizing these dynamics ensures that trauma-informed care is inclusive, equitable, and responsive to the diverse ways trauma shows up in our bodies and lives.  These body-based memories linger, influencing how you respond to…
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Zapraszając ciało do coachingu: potęga integracyjnego coachingu somatycznego

what the heck does somatic mean anyway? The word somatic comes from the Greek word soma meaning the body.  The term “somatics” was first coined by Thomas Hannah in the 1970’s, however long before this kind of mind-body work cam about in the “west”, ancient and indigenous lineages have long known about it and it’s importance. So I would like to just pause here for a moment and recognize that somatics are heavily influence by eastern, indigenous, and shamanic cultures but often over looked, culturally-appropriated and not given their proper credit.  So from a social justice, anti-racist, and trauma-informed point of view you could say that the term somatics is the product of white washing and colonization.  The idea of the embodiment is nothing new. Our ancestors have been dancing, singing, connecting, growing, and healing through different mind-body-spirit rituals since we were expressing ourselves through drawings in caves. It all changed around the time Decartes said “I think therefor I am”, and the mind and brain sat up on a pedestal. We started to disregard the body as a tool or machine, and the spirit was thrown away along with it. Welcome to the era of disembodiment. Today there isn’t just one but many different somatic frameworks, lineages, and modalities, and even though they are different they all agree in the importance of including the body in our life and connecting to all of it’s inherent wisdom, intuition, and instinct. In general, somatics is the study and practice of the mind and body working together to enhance the human experience though inner dialogue with the emergent wisdom and implicit cellular memory, meaning unconscious body memories. It’s a process of self discovery, self awareness, and cultivating the sense of interception, in other words learning to speak the language of the body from the inside out.  zooming out From a holistic perspective, our soma includes not just our animal body, but also our mind, and perhaps even the spirit. So the soma isn’t just the biological body, it is the whole, complex, living organism. This includes the conscious and unconscious mind and all of its thoughts, beliefs, internal narratives, imagery, and symbols, as well as the body’s sensations, feelings, emotions, and nervous system states. The thing is, our soma doesn’t live in a vacuum. We are biopsychosocial beings, meaning besides the biology and psychology, there is also the in between relational world. And so all of these things and our life experiences literally “shape” us, the shape of our body, our actions and non actions, our relationship to our Self, to other people, to the world around us. And so this somatic shape of ours also holds our learned behaviours, automatic embodied habits, relational strategies, societal “norms”, masks, survival roles, protective parts, younger child parts, and many different adaptive patterns living and running our life from the shadows. If we were to zoom out a bit more we might recognise that besides the obvious impact of family dynamics and other close relationships on our soma, there are also the cultural and collective layers. So depending on where we are born we may inherit certain beliefs, norms and traditions.  If we zoom out even more we might recognize how somatics also invite us to look at the impact of systems and institutions that operate in our westernized dominant culture. And depending on what you look life, your ability, your skin color, your income, your gender, your sexual orientation, you will have less privilege and be set up to suffer more injustice and oppression. And if again we zoom even further out we are invited to look at the collective, environmental and perhaps even spiritual landscapes. Here we might see that our soma is also shaped by our ancestors, all their lived experiences, and the history of the culture we were raised in (intergenerational trauma and resilience). We could also see that our relationship to the planet, nature, the animals and plants also reflects in how we are shaped. After all we are made from the same stuff as all other living beings on this planet, and yet many of us forget and treat nature as something to conquer and dominate. And if this is in your belief, our soma to many people is also tied into the energetic, ethereal and spiritual realms, but that’s a whole other long topic. set up your free discovery call! inviting the body into coaching Most coaching out there centres around mindset, beliefs and story but understanding something alone often isn’t enough to create embodied transformation.   Somatic approaches are gaining popularity over the last 15 years because they can bring about positive transformation more quickly – via the nervous system.  A whopping 80% of the information that travels to the brain comes from the body via the vagus nerve and only 20% of the information travels from the brain to the body. Much of the western world has become disembodied, putting the mind on a pedestal, but when were disconnected from our body, we lose out on important information , which is sent from the body to our conscious mind.  Neuroscience studies have shown that the brain and body are interwoven – we cannot change one without the other. Ancient and indigenous traditions have always understood the importance of inner work, the transformational potential of repetitive movement on the body and the impact it has on the mind.  The good news is through neroplasticity we can reprogram the brain, rewire the nervous system and reshape the body, not only during the activity but in all areas of our life. This is embodied transformation, When we are using our felt sense, parts of the brain responsible for emotional processing, self-awareness, and interception (inner felt sense) come online, which means we tap into the possibility of embodied transformation of neurophysiological, emotional, and postural patterns. When we work only cognitively (with story, mindset, beliefs and other content) this isn’t possible. my approach to somatic coaching My personal approach to Somatic Coaching is trauma-informed and integrative, which means I do not…
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